No, I'm not talking about nails, hair, clothes and makeup. Too many women say they do all those things for themself. Do women check out dudes in magazines? Do women let the men into clubs for free? Do women try to win men with gifts and compliments? Give me 1 example of something common that's NOT selfish women do to show men they're important to them.
What is 1 common non selfish thing a woman does to show meeting a good man is important?
Try to get along with their friends because it is very important to the guy.
What is 1 common non selfish thing a woman does to show meeting a good man is important?
They show you the vulnerable side of them, they do all the housework, they bear and take care of your children, they abandon their careers...Isn't this enough???
**To the answer below: Of course I'm not talking about all women. Not even the question can include all of them. But, most of them do all the housework. And the fact that they take care of their children may not be entirely for their man, but, it's pretty valuable, don't you think??Because today we do have options! We can decide that we don't want children or that we don't want to raise them and get them nannies.Now as for the career issue, the moment a woman consumes the 4/6 of her time doing the housework, watching the kids, helping them with school, dropping them at school, etc, she is in a way, forced to put her career in a lower priority. And you can't make a professional by considering your job of no absolute necessity.
What is 1 common non selfish thing a woman does to show meeting a good man is important?
How is looking at women in magazines for personal gratification not selfish? And does it show women they're appreciated or does it show the majority of women some standard they can't attain? Likewise, letting women into clubs for free is hardly an unselfish gesture of appreciation: it's a business decision because it is recognized that men will go where the women are.
And if women did try to win men with gifts and compliments, that might show appreciation for men, but it would hardly be unselfish: not if it's done 'to win men".
Your whole question is very confused.
Now, if your point is that men are generally assigned the role of the pursuer in male-female courtship and that therefore, men make more gestures of attraction toward women than women make toward men, that may be a fair point. But as it stands, you're in a muddle.
Eliza, do most women still do "all" the housework? I haven't been able to get away with that? And is bearing taking taking care of children something women do only for the sake of their man? Nonsense. And giving up career? First, fewer and fewer women do that, whether by choice or necessity. Second, a lot of women seek out a financially well-off man specifically so they'll be in a position to do that, so it's ridiculous to say they do it all for their men.
Sys, got your clarification. I have a couple of comments:
First, many of our courtship rituals go back to when women didn't have jobs but when a woman's parents were expected to pay for the wedding. So the guy spending money was demonstrating his sincerity and his ability to be a provider. is it unfair to maintain such standards now, even when women sometimes make more money than men and when couples go into debt paying for their wedding? Perhaps. But cultural imagery and notions of romance don't always keep up with economic realities.
Second, it should be noted that women are inclined to compliment men for different things that appearance. If a woman compliments a man on his athletic prowess, his strength, his intelligence, his hard work, his handiness, etc., that can be as much to win his favor as if a man compliments her on her physical appearance.
Third, just because women say they do the cosmetic stuff for themselves doesn't make it so. Just like a guy claiming he works out for his health or for his professional image or for his athletic performance may still be doing it in large part to attract women.
Eliza, considering I don't want children and many women have declined to be in a relationship with me because they did want children (which is of course their prerogative: people need to be with people whose aims are compatible) I think it's ridiculous to claim that having kids is something women do for men - "entirely", "primarily", or even "largely". If women just gave birth and raised children to please a man, they'd be grateful for a guy like me who wouldn't ask that of them.
Of course, having and raising children involves a great sacrifice and of course, a man should appreciate having a partner who wants to do that if their goals in life mesh, but it is ridiculous to mention this in the context of something women do FOR men.
What is 1 common non selfish thing a woman does to show meeting a good man is important?
something non selfish a woman does for her man...
*clean up after him
*give him a back rub
*do something just to make him happy
*pay attention when he says he wants something (materialistic) and surprise him with it
there are many more...
What is 1 common non selfish thing a woman does to show meeting a good man is important?
I don't understand the question. I understand the non-selfish part, but how could a woman show you that meeting a good man is important. Meeting a good man is important and selfish, most women want a good man. But, one common non-selfish thing a women does to show a man he's important is to wear fancy little nighties...do you think they are really comfortable? We do this for the man and not ourselves. Most of us would just like to sleep in our mans t-shirt, but be the unselfish women that we are, we do this one unselfish thing for him. Sorry, ladies the cooking and cleaning we no longer can claim because most men are better at it then us. But how cute do you think they would look in a little nightie?LOL
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