I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

being a teenage girl in 8th grade--neary 9th, there is sooo much pressure to be skinny. the guys want that pretty skinny girl who is literally like barbie or the models in the magazines.

te new "fat" is a size 4 and the new skinny is a size 0.

im that size 4.

and because im not some super skinny blonde with really long hair and skin to perfection, im suddenly in exile in the dating department. and it gets me upset.

im not ugly,

im just not a toothpick.

so i guess my question is, is there any point in a teens life where they realize a size 4 isnt fat?

and that you can be pretty without being a size 0?

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

Really? I thought that being thick was in now! I think most guys like girls who have a little more meat on them. Just love yourself the way you are, and others will too. BY THE WAY. A size 4 is not fat at all, it just means you have curves. Curves are good sweety, and if the guys in your school can't appreciate that, then just wait until you're older and TRUST ME, there will be plenty of appreciative guys.

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

Its not about that you just have to realize guys that go for those size 0 girls arent they guys who look for a girl who respects herself and will be fun to be around guys who go for the size 0's are guys who are shallow or looking for girls who dont respect themselves stay who you are and dont worry about other people and you will get the guy you deserve.

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

Just wait until high school when some of the girls are like size 20.

lol!

Actually, my gf is like 250 pounds, so not a size 0, but I believe she is gorgeous!

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

my wife is a size 5 she is fine as well as you are do not sweat the skinny minnies a stiff wind will blow them over

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

You have to realize that in yourself! You cannot let what a guy thinks of you determine what you think of yourself! I know it's difficult to see that right now when you are a teen, but trust me - the guy you want is the guy who will like you for WHO you are not WHAT you are! In the meantime enjoy who you are and love yourself for that! :) Good luck to you!

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

im a teenager

im 15 and i dont think size 4 is fat or ugly

and i thought that being thick is in right now...?

just keep ur head high

maybe the guys dont deserve u if all they want is a toothpick .

u are probably sooo much better than those other girls

goodluck

--olivia %26lt;3

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

Excuse me, but I happen to be a size 4 %26amp; Im very small, of course Im much older then you, I am 40, but I do know a thing or two regarding weight health, %26amp; I know a size 4 is not fat! I can also tell you that guys like not just size two %26amp; 0,s, they like girls of different colors, weights, sizes %26amp; nationalitys, no two girl is alike, just like no two guy is alike, at the end of the day, were all different.

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

My fiance is a size 6, 5'6 and weighs around 135, not fat or anything, but also not a toothpick. I think she's beautiful and would not have her be a 0 if I could.

I have being average sized!!(please read this!)?

You can be pretty being any size at all!!! I'm a 7 and I'm proud!! You shouldn't care about the pressure to be skinny because no one really cares about sizes. Guys care about personality and attractiveness which doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be a toothpick.