Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

They complain that men only care about sex, but then almost everything they do is centered around attracting men (clothes, make-up, hair, perfume, going out, etc.). Even womens entertainment material like Cosmo Magazine, romance novels, and chick flicks. Seems like men are the only thing on most womens minds!

If substance, personality and a relationship thats based on more than just sex is so important to women, why don't they focus more on being amazing people that men will actually enjoy spending time with and less on looking like a barbie doll and competing with other women? What say you?

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I agree that women in general are hypocritical about sex. This hypocrisy is widespread thinking among women. Watch as many women here will deny it though.

I agree -- who dresses more flattering and shows more skin and wears more form-fitting clothing? Men or women? Obviously the answer is women. Who has the cleavage out, the skintight spandex leggings, the super-high miniskirt, the makeup, the thongs, the daisyduke shorts? Women. Obviously these women are trying to attract "sex," be it subconsciously or overtly. What makes these women hypocrites, is at the point that these women will call men "perverts" and roll their eyes at men for staring at them. I'm sorry, but it's incredibly hypocritical if she's going to wear skintight spandex bun-hugging shorts, with her stomach exposed and her cleavage exposed, with her nipples poking through the bra -- and then have the audacity to roll her eyes and become self-righteous all-of-a-sudden when she catches someone looking at her. And then call that person a "pervert" with "sex" on their mind. Trust me, if more women dressed more modest, similar to how most men dress -- and wore loose-fitting clothes that covered the body -- there will be a lot less men staring.

Now I'm going to paraphrase Dave Chappelle:

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"Just because I'm dressed this way, DOES NOT make me a ho'!"

. . . which is true gentlemen, just because they dress a certain way, doesn't mean they are a certain way, don't ever forget it.

But ladies, you must understand that that is f**king confusing.

That would be like me, walking around the streets in a cop uniform. Somebody might come up to me:

"Oh! Thank God. Officer, help us! Come on, they're over here, help us!"

And I'd say "Oh! Just because I'm dressed this way, DOES NOT make me a police officer!"

You understand what I'm saying?

It's like, alright ladies -- fine! You are not a ho' . . .

but you ARE wearing a ho's uniform!

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There's also general perception that women don't enjoy sex as much as men. There is a reason why this perception exists. Women will make defense claims and state that they enjoy sex just as much as men, and even say they get more fulfilling orgasms than men. If that's the case, why is it that men are the ones that are generally thought of as being the ones that want sex and think about sex? Sex is obviously more enjoyable to men based on these facts. So women will ridicule men for thinking about sex too often, while at the same time ridiculing men for not thinking that women like sex just as much as them. One girl I know who is 22 has never experienced an orgasm -- and she told me men have to have orgasms regularly, but women can go months and years without one and be fine. If what that statement is true, then that is further proof says women aren't interested in sex as much as men. So which is it, ladies? Are you just as "perverted" and sex-loving as us men, or are you the reserved, conservative, "ew sex is for perverts" type women? I honestly believe that you're not only confusing men, but you're confusing yourselves (women).

EDIT: And I must ask -- why are women in such DENIAL about why they "fix themselves up"? Women always say they make themselves look pretty for "themselves" or to compete with "other women." BS! Women know men look and they like the attention, and they strive for the attention.

Wow, you women who keep up this desperate lie that women don't show cleavage and wear skimpy clothes for men are beyond ridiculous. You must think everyone must've been born yesterday to believe that. Men know women dress like this to attract men. I can tell by women's facial expressions that they like it when I look at them.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

i think your stupid women fix up for themselves not to attract men

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

They used to :(

back in the day

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

You can solve this problem for yourself.

Just date women who are fat, ugly smell bad and dress like they just finished slopping the hogs.

Go for it.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

it's because men are less interested in "amazing" women than in sexy women. if we aren't sexy, you don't give us a second glance!

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

My guess is stereotyping. They have a stereotype of men as caring only about sex.

As for the amount of energy women spend on their appearance, I blame the fashion industry. It really is quite hilarious, men don't even notice something like 80% of the effort most women put into their appearance but those women are totally convinced if they don't do it nobody will find them attractive. When in fact it's only really women who care about make-up and being super-thin and all that; us men are satisfied as long as you bathe regularly and aren't obese.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I have to disagree...

I have had too many conversations among with my friends (all of us women)...

"We have been told our entire lives that all men want is sex...then when we finally put out, they don't want it."

all of use have had the problem where the MEN don't want it..where the MEN say "why do we have to do it every time we are together.."

And no we are not a small group of unattractive, unintelligent, women who do not know what we are doing in that department.

We finally came to the conclusion that men are all talk...and little action. mores the pity for them

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

Sex is the only thing on Cosmo's mind. Real women (and men) have more important things to worry about.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

that is an interesting question.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

There are a number of factors at play, including

1. Age of these girls

2. Education/Occupation

They'll grow out of it - EVERYBODY does.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

That's a downright lie; women do fix themselves up, whether they like it or not, even if they won't admit it to score. Whether it's being kissed or going all the way. You want the truth here it is.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I don't really care, what a girl wants is what a girl needs man, I would just get over it if I were you.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

Maybe women would be more into admitting they like sex if the aftermath wouldnt be having to endure being degraded and called whore, slut, etc. or have someone lose interest in them. If you want women to admit or act on how they feel then please change the negative reaction.

The makeup thing would be because of what other women tell you, in my opinion. Cause no man has ever told me i need to wear makeup, only another woman. It's weird. I don't wear makeup.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I fix myself up for me and lord help the man who messes with my make up or hair before I say they can, or if they can.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

There are a few women out there that don't go with the flow. They don't wear makeup or fix up their hair every time they go out. It depends alot on society and their own self esteem. Most of my friends women and men alike, both care about how they look when they go out in public. I, myself take 5 minutes to get ready where it takes my husband 30 minutes.

We live in a world where women have to look attractive in order to get noticed, whether it be in a crowd or at work. Women can't usually go to work in jeans as a man can, it's against company policies. Another reason women learn to dress up and keep makeup on... company policies.

I don't wear makeup, never have. I don't fix my hair, except into a ponytail. Dresses are for Sundays going to church, or for an important meeting of bosses. My parents always taught me to be myself and not to conform to society. Not many people have the ability to turn away from peer presure, or T.V.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

excellent question and one i'll never have an answer to. But I'll tell you what...a long time ago, i stopped spending so much money on makeup; when i realized I was going to get laid either way. lol.

I guess one explanation would be that women are brought up/raised to be relational. Not independent thinkers or subjects of their own lives. For example the toys we are given as children are fake phones, fake kitchens, fake cleaning products, baby dolls to care for, barbie dolls to dress up and get Ken to like... little girls play dress up and pretend they are in beauty pageants while boys play war and make tree forts. Now, to that end, i happened to be a little girl who built tree forts and played pine cone war as well as barbie and dressup lol....

At any rate, it is a pothetic reality that women think they need to impress men by their looks alone. Or to impress them at all.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

Let me solve this for you. If you had done any research on male and female sex drives or intimacy issues, you could have solved it yourself.

Men are naturally driven to the act of sex. Everyone is different of course, so each has his own degree of sex being a priority. Men want sex. Period.

Women want intimacy, which of course leads to sex. No one ever said "Women don't want sex." Of course they do. Sex is great. But, for a woman, the emotional connection is the important part. It is what makes the sex good.

These are stereotypes. There are many men who are sensitive and crave intimacy and there are lots of women who are just out to score. There are exceptions to every rule. You asked about a sterotype, I simply answered.

This is why women want foreplay, and the average man either rushes it or doesnt want it at all. He just wants sex.

Does that make sense??

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

You seem to have some wrong concepts. God has created male and female. It is the duty of the females to attract the males and for the males to be attracted tot the females. This phenomenon is seen in all plants and animals. While the nature does everything for this"attraction" in the female sex, humans are blessed with the quality of developing their own ways of attraction. Perhaps Humans are unique in enjoying sex for pleasure other than reproduction ( Dolphins are also said to be doing that) Look at the beautiful butterfly! The Gold fish. Look at the way that the females attract the male. The cry sound of the female Whale that reach 10 Kilometers.... If the man has to have the sexual feeling, it is imperative that the woman be attractive; or else the act of sex will become incomplete and an offspring will be impossible. So Woman has the bounden duty to make them up sexy and attractive. That is the rule of the nature.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I think your generalizing some women are not like that. Especially true White Nationalist ones like me!!

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

As a woman that is either incapable or reluctant of doing anything you describe: probably because women know that works to attract men. :D The more I behave 'like a real woman' (your stereotype) the better the success rate of getting a man. :D That doesn't say anything about how pleased women are after that.

There's nothing wrong with taking good care of yourself, because that makes anyone feel great without even thinking about attracting another sex.

I also know that as long as I'm not doing what you describe my chances of attracting a possible mate are a lot less. The harsh reality of it is, even I had complaints about men without needing to live out the stereotypical 'chick things'. The plain and simple truth is women and men have different ideas about sex. And with that sentence I'd already by lying. :D

I've asked several women if they were open to one night stands and they firmly answered no. Then when I said to replace the average bloke with any man they found severely attractive all of a sudden, that also didn't seem to matter. So go figure, I'm lost as well.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

Women were taught for centuries that any association with sex was taboo for them by our culture and society, religion, etc. They were taught this as little girls....Girls/women were made examples of by torture, prision, etc if they had any association w/sex outside of marriage, even in sexual education. This is why many women of today are even hesitant to touch themselves, self gratification...(masturbation)....Things are changing...slowly as women are becoming more open to express their sexuality.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

I for one am not a hypocrite about sex. I love it! My husband and I have a very active sex life. Yes I do dress up for him, but I dress up for myself as well and Yes I do dress up to be around the house sometimes. You just have days where you want to look nice is all. FYI, Cosmo has more info in it than just sex..and the sexual advice is how to have a better sex life with your current boyfriend/spouse, not how to bone every guy in the place.

Why are women such hypocrites about sex?

Not all women are obsessed with their looks, just like not all men care if a woman looks "perfect" either. What a generalization. Not all women read Cosmo (ugh), romance novels (ugh) or chick flicks (boring!). Quite a few women hate all of those things, I certainly do.

Many of the women I know don't care much about clothes, don't wear make-up, just get their hair cut, don't wear perfume, and go out with friends and family, to have fun.

Maybe if you had a higher opinion of women, and stopped focusing on their looks, you might be able to attract a woman of quality yourself.